What are Your Ten Commandments?

August 4, 2008

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In front of my computer sits a notice board with a piece of paper stuck right in the middle of it. On that piece of paper, in different fonts & sizes, are ten sentences that I have affectionately coined my “Ten Commandments” — ten truths that I like to remind myself on a daily basis. They are (in no particular order) as follows:


  • ONE: Fill up my skin with myself. Become empowered with my own magic!
  • TWO: Always follow my dreams. Take chances!
  • THREE: Have a healthy mind & a healthy body.
  • FOUR: Be honest, integral & true — no matter what.
  • FIVE: Love deeply. Always keep love in my heart & regularly remind people how special they are. 
  • SIX: Let go of comparisons! 
  • SEVEN: Put service to others first & foremost… money will always come.
  • EIGHT: Live a creative, meaningful, extraordinary (not ordinary!) existence.
  • NINE:  Greet each day with a smile! Be enthusiastic & laugh at any opportunity!
  • TEN: Show the world who I am!


Ultimately, these commandments reflect my core values & the things that are most important to me at this point in my life. I think it’s nice to draw ourselves back to what’s ‘real’ from time to time, especially when the idiosyncrasies & annoyances of daily life tend to creep in unwittingly sometimes! I have no doubt I will add or alter some of the commandments on my list as time goes on, but for now, I’m pretty happy with their message.

Soo… now it’s your turn! What are your Ten Commandments? What are your golden rules for living & loving life?

I would absolutely love to hear them! If you haven’t previously thought about articulating these ‘truths’, now is the perfect time to put it all out there! Sometimes writing things down can be really beneficial & spark off all kinds of inspirations & motivations; it’s just about giving ourselves a moment to sift through all the chatter in our minds & pondering what really matters to us.

You are all amazing (& don’t you forget it!)

Rach xxx

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What better to do on a lovely winter’s morning…

August 3, 2008

… than hit the beach for a stroll & a photo sesh! 

Early Saturday morning, Ramai & I decided to pull our fluey selves out of bed & wander across the road to Burleigh beach for a walk around the beautiful headland (read: mini rainforest) — and I am SO GLAD WE DID!

What an absolutely glorious day! And yes, it is the middle of winter!  It was a funny walk actually. An old man jogging called out “Nice hat” as he went past me (thank you!); then as we were at the lookout at the top of the headland, watching a whale out in the ocean, the guy next to us said: “Geez they taste good, whales” (to which everyone on the viewing platform spun around, mouths agape!)

Then, finally, to top off the morning, I turned around to see a middle-aged woman dressed in a full business suit (heels, jacket, skirt, hair in a bouffant etc) trudging up the hill — which, by the way, is super steep — & all this before 7:30am! 

Anyway, here are some more pics, posted for no other reason than to make you jealous make you smile, wherever you may be in the world! Remember, seize the day! 


Burleigh Point

Me just hangin’
Ramai… cheesy, fake smile

Silly!

Ramai creeping around in the rocks

One of the pools where we live. Just coz.

 

Hope your weekend was just as sunny (in every way!) 

Big love, 
Rach xxx

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How to Wear… Colour

July 29, 2008

For someone that has been known to have a very colourful wardrobe in the past, I was shocked & disturbed when I took a glance inside my closet yesterday and found a whole lotta grey & black… and not much else. When did my wardrobe morph from fun & bright & full of variety to corporate & booooring? Am I in a winter rut, or is this something more sinister? Have I ‘forgotten’ how to wear colour? Eeek!

Whatever the reason, it’s time to incorporate colour back into my clothing collection, and out of fear that my lovely readers might be in the same boat, I’ve come up with some creations to show you how to bring colour back into your life — and wear it with panache!

Be bold! Be bright! Be beautiful!

Resplendent Red! (product info)
Perfect Pink! (product info)
Yes, more pink! Pretty Pink fused with Outrageous Orange! (product info)
Overt Orange! (product info)
Yes!-worthy Yellow! (product info)
Glorious Green! (product info)
Beauteous Blue! (product info)
Prestigious Purple! (product info)

 

YAY for colour! I can feel another shopping trip coming on…

Rainbow love & inspiration, 
Rach xxx

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All Linked Up! 24th July 2008

July 24, 2008

 

YAY to old school glamour!
      

  • Hitoki “is an online literary project collecting stories of singular experiences tied to locations in cities worldwide.” Hitoki is a Japanese word that is often translated as “a moment” — a brief, singular stretch of time. Really interesting, take a peek!
  • Retouchers ahoy! Check out 70 Beauty-Retouching Photoshop Tutorials! WOW! Learn how to get brighter teeth, a perkier butt, a smaller nose, flawless skin, and god knows what else  — all with the click of a mouse!
  • I’m loving this editorial of Naomi Campbell from V Magazine. Oh, and this shoot of Christy Turlington is pretty amazing too! Long live the ‘original’ supermodels!
  • Daily horoscopes, video-style on Soul Garden. The presenter is very excitable…
  • The Vagina Spa is here! Bahaha! OK, I’m purely including this because it made me laugh.. hard! What is the world coming to? Seriously! Read and weep!
  • All the bloggers out there should read How to Be Interesting from Copyblogger! Insightful stuff!
  • My future home will have this sink… because IT IS COOL.
  • I just discovered Hi-Fructose, which is a really cool counter-culture online art magazine. Check it owwwwt!
  • The Importance of Routine and How to Make Your Life Happier in One Simple Change are both fantastic articles from A Miracle a Day! Really useful advice!
  • Tina Su delves into the power of language — isn’t it funny how often we unconsciously use negative statements day to day?!
  • Check out this girl’s style (via Style Bubble)! So eclectic!  I love what she has to say about personal style… here, here!

Love & bubbles!

Rach xxx

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How to Pack like a Pro!

July 23, 2008

Photo by yyellowbird

 

This weekend, the boy and I are heading off for a few days to Melbourne (totally an “in-and-out” visit unfortunately!) but it got me thinking about packing for a trip away.

I used to travel interstate and overseas a lot with my last job, and after a few over-zealous packing efforts early on in the piece, I quickly learned how to pack just the necessities! I remember on one of my first work trips, I spent a week in Hong Kong, followed by a week in London (plus a day visiting my best friend, who was living in London at the time!), and I have a particularly painful memory of hauling the world’s heaviest suitcase all the way through Heathrow Airport, up an incredible number of stairs at the train station, and about 5 km’s down the road to her place… and yes, it just happened to be one of those rare, extremely warm London days (oh, and not to mention the fact I was wearing heels and a winter coat!) It was an absolute nightmare! I still shudder just thinking about it!

Needless to say, I well and truly learnt my lesson after that back-breaking journey (that also cost me a small fortune in excessive baggage charges), so I thought I would share with you my tips for packing appropriately, maximising your luggage space, and saving your sanity (and your wallet!)

Step 1: Plan

Determine how many items (be realistic!) and what type of clothing you will need for your trip. What you pack will be heavily dictated by your chosen destination — obviously, you won’t be giving your bikini and short shorts a second thought if you’re hitting the Swiss Alps for a skiing holiday! Plan outfits around basic essentials that can be mixed-and-matched, and dressed up or down depending on the occasion. Also, think about items that can be easily layered.

My fail-safe list includes:

  • A versatile black dress
  • A skirt
  • A good pair of jeans
  • A nice pair of tailored trousers
  • A few different t-shirts/ tops (dressy and casual)
  • A cardigan
  • Work out gear (if there is a gym where I am staying, and usually only on longer trips!)
  • A pair of thongs (flip-flops) and comfortable shoes (as well as some not-so-comfortable shoes for hitting the town!)
  • A jacket (depending on wear you are headed, this will be either lighweight, or a heavier coat)
  • Accessories: a wool scarf, a silk/satin scarf (that can double as a headscarf), stud/hoop/dangly earrings, bangles, a necklace, stockings, a nice belt, sunglasses (and if I’m heading somewhere cold — a snood/ knitted hat).

Lay everything out on your bed & add and subtract where needed. This is the time to wash any dirty clothing, and to iron pieces that are looking crumpled and creased, to make everything easier at the other end (do you find that hotel irons are really useless, or is it just me?!) When you’re planning what to pack, it also pays to check the weather forecast ahead of time and enquire into whether there will there be laundry facilities where you’re headed. 

Step 2: Pack

My advice is to pack everything the day before you leave for your destination, then as soon as you arrive, immediately put it all away in the wardrobe/drawers, which will prevent your clothes from becoming wrinkled. The less time they spend in your suitcase, the better! 

Remember to fill every nook and cranny!

I like to do a combination of rolling and stacking when I am packing a suitcase. As a general rule, I will roll items like t-shirts, sweaters, skirts, underwear, pyjamas and workout gear, and place these on the bottom of my case. Then, I will fold pieces such as trousers, dresses, jeans and jackets and lay these on top of the rolled items. 

My other recommendations for successful packing include:

a) Pack your underwear in the side pockets of your suitcase, and stuff your socks and accessories inside your shoes (provided they aren’t smelly, which of course, they wouldn’t be!) You can wrap them in tissue paper first if you want to be extra-cautious!

b) Wrap shoes in plastic bags and arrange them around the edges of your suitcase, with the heel of one in alignment with the toe of the other.

c) Place your toiletries in a plastic bag and sit this in the centre of your case. When it comes to toiletries, don’t go too overboard, and try to bring small bottles where possible (zip-lock bags are also fantastic for storing bottles of lotion so that they don’t spill everywhere). I usually bring: shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, a razor, foundation, blush, mascara, an eyelash curler, two eyeliners, an eyeshadow compact, cleanser, moisturiser, perfume, deodorant (and tweezers and lipgloss, which are always in my handbag!) 

d) For a short trip, if you are super organised, put outfits in separate plastic/ cloth bags (complete with accessories) so that all you have to do each day is grab out your pre-planned outfit! Too easy! Although, if you are like me and tend to change your mind depending on your daily mood, you might have to skip this suggestion! 

Don’t forget the entertainment!

Now it’s time to think about all your gadgets! If you have a laptop, and think it will be worthwhile bringing it along, make sure you have a protective laptop bag to store it in. Same goes for your digital/ video camera (I always bring these all things as carry-on luggage). Don’t forget books, magazines, iPod, a Moleskine/ planner, your phone (and charger! Very important!) and cables/ spare batteries. 

Pimp your bag 

To ensure you suitcase stands out on the carousel, attach a brightly coloured ribbon or crazy luggage tag to the handle. Alternatively, you might like to cover your bag in fluorescent pink stickers and write “HELLO, I BELONG TO …..” all over them! (Whatever tickles your fancy!) 

Additional totally tremendous travelling tips:

  • On the plane: stay cosy by ensuring you are wearing comfortable pants (I generally wear pilates/yoga pants on long-haul flights), a warm jacket and thick socks to keep your toes toasty. Ciao Bella Travel sell moisturising socks to rejuvenate your feet while you are on a flight… I’ll  definitely be picking up a pair of these little beauties next time I jet overseas, what a great idea! Also, keep hyrated by sipping lots of water throughout the flight; ask for an eye mask if you are planning on getting some shut-eye and seek herbal help with a sleep balm.
  • Be ready for extreme weather conditions — don’t forget to throw a compact umbrella into your suitcase, as well as a cute hat, a pair of colourful bikinis and sunscreen.
  • Depending on how long you are going to be away, you might like to add your own ‘personal’ touch to your hotel room to make it more welcoming. Scented candles are awesome when you are having a relaxing bath; likewise, a small bunch of local flowers, or a few photos of your friends/loved ones will make the room feel a bit more like home if you will be away for a while!
  • Always pack a spare pair of underwear in your hand luggage in case your suitcase gets waylaid! 
  • Music is a must! Whether you are waiting for taxis or trains, or just sitting on a plane, listening to music is a great way to pass the time. Make sure your iPod is charged up and ready to go before you leave.
  • If you are partial to straightening your hair, don’t forget to add your straightener to the list! Also, if you have room, bring your own hairdryer, as the majority of the time, the ones provided in hotels aren’t.. err.. fabulous!
  • Check out these articles for more information on packing effectively and travelling smart: Packing a Suitcase Can Have You Packing it inHow to Pack a Suitcase: A Guide; How to Pack a Suitcase from eHow, & How to Travel with One Bag.

 

So, tell me, what are your top travelling tips? How do you ensure that you get from A to B as smoothly (& stylishly!) as possible? Spill forth your words of wisdom!

Zoom, zoom, whoooosh, zooooom! (that’s my plane taking off, in case you were wondering! Ha!)

Rach xxx

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